Duck and Eagle


Is there a secret mantra for bringing enthusiasm in our day to day work? How can we regain the lost excitement in our personal life? I recently came across an unusual but inspiring real-life story that may have the answer. This incident took place with Harvey Macky, a well-known motivational speaker.

Harvey was waiting in line for a taxi at the airport. When a car pulled up, the first thing Harvey noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine. Smartly dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for Harvey. He handed Harvey a laminated card and said, "I'm Wally, your driver. While I'm loading your bags in the trunk I'd like you to read my mission statement."

Taken aback, Harvey read the card. It said, ”Wally's Mission Statement: To get my customers to their destination in the quickest, safest and cheapest way possible in a friendly environment.”

This blew Harvey away. Especially when he noticed that the inside of the cab matched the outside. Spotlessly clean!

As he slid behind the wheel, Wally said, "Would you like a cup of coffee? I have a thermos of regular and one of decaf."

Harvey said jokingly, "No, I'd prefer a soft drink."

Wally smiled and said, "No problem. I have a cooler up front with regular and Diet Coke, water and orange juice."

Almost stuttering, Harvey said, "I'll take a Diet Coke."

Handing him his drink, Wally said, "If you'd like something to read, I have The Wall Street Journal , Time, Sports Illustrated and USA Today."

As they were pulling away, Wally handed Harvey another laminated card. "These are the stations I get and the music they play, if you'd like to listen to the radio."

And as if that weren't enough, Wally told Harvey that he had the air conditioning on and asked if the temperature was comfortable for him. Then he advised Harvey of the best route to his destination for that time of day. He also let him know that he'd be happy to chat and tell him about some of the sights or, if Harvey preferred, to leave him with his own thoughts.

"Tell me, Wally," a visibly amazed Harvey asked the driver, "have you always served customers like this?"

Wally smiled into the rearview mirror. "No, not always. In fact, it's only been in the last two years. My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining like all the rest of the cabbies do. Then I heard the personal growth guru, Wayne Dyer, on the radio one day. He had just written a book called You'll See It When You Believe It. Dyer said that if you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you'll rarely disappoint yourself. He said, 'Stop complaining! Differentiate yourself from your competition. Don't be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar above the crowd. The eagle will fly to some high spot and wait for the winds to come. When the storm hits, it sets its wings so that the wind will pick it up and lift it above the storm. While the storm rages below, the eagle is soaring above it.  The eagle does not escape the storm. It simply uses the storm to lift it higher. It rises on the winds that bring the storm.’

"That hit me right between the eyes," said Wally. "Dyer was really talking about me. I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and become an eagle. I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers. The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy. So I decided to make some changes. I put in a few at a time. When my customers responded well, I did more."

"I take it that has paid off for you," Harvey said.

"It sure has," Wally replied. "My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from the previous year. This year I'll probably quadruple it. You were lucky to get me today. I don't sit at cabstands anymore. My customers call me for appointments on my cell phone or leave a message on my answering machine. If I can't pick them up myself, I get a reliable cabbie friend to do it and I take a piece of the action."

Wally was phenomenal. He was running a limo service out of a Yellow Cab.

So, here is the secret mantra. Great service is a matter of choice. You could either quack like a Duck or soar like an Eagle. It doesn't have to be just service. This lesson of this story can be applied bring back enthusiasm to your workplace and personal life. Whatever be the situation in life, it’s our own choice to be a complaining Duck or a soaring Eagle.

Who would you prefer to be? 

Let Go


There are times when we seem to be perpetually stuck in an unpleasant situation against our wish. It may a stagnant business, or a dead investment, a project that has fallen off-track, a relationship that has gone sour, a job that is not taking us anywhere, and so on. The situation may appear to be completely out of our control; what steps can we take to come out of such conditions? Before I answer this question, consider the following anecdote:

Monkey-hunters use a box with an opening at the top, big enough for the monkey to slide its hand in. Inside the box are nuts. The monkey grabs the nuts and now its hand becomes a fist. The monkey tries to get its hand out but the opening is big enough for the hand to slide in, but too small for the fist to come out. Now the monkey has a choice, either to let go off the nuts and be free forever or hang on to the nuts and get caught. Guess what it picks every time? You guessed it. He hangs on to the nuts and gets caught.

There is an important lesson hidden in this story. Whenever you are in a never ending unhappy situation, think carefully and ask yourself, “Am I hanging onto some nuts here that keep me from going forward in life? Why can’t I break free from this?” You may find yourself rationalizing by saying, "I cannot do this because . . ."; and whatever comes after "because" are the nuts that you are hanging on to which are holding you back.

Once you understand the idea and recognize the nuts you are holding on to, just let go of them. Put a stop loss and get rid of the investments that are not working out. Let go of the business that seems to have no future. Accept the fact that it did not work out in a sour relationship, and let go. Know when to decide to put an end to a failed project, even if it is a highly cherished one. Look at your beliefs and perceptions that are not helping you navigate through life smoothly, and get rid of them. This does not mean that we just quit everything quickly and do not try harder to make it work. Perseverance is good and necessary to achieve anything worthwhile in life. However, after making all possible efforts, if you still find no rays of hope in the situation, then it is worthwhile to consider if it is time to let it go.

So, it is well within your circle of influence to come out of these unhappy situations if you so desire. Just learn to let go when appropriate. Get rid of your bulky baggage that is holding you back. And you will be free to fly again to newer heights.